Omerta+ 1,206 Posted April 27, 2014 (edited) Read a book about duality and the balance that is essential for living, it was not a self help book, but had story lines that made you think about character flaws and how to deal with them and function in reality. I am not sure that I have ever sat down and thought about it, but for me it is water. Lakes, fountains, Oceans, bathtubs, hot tubs, and so on... Just the quiet and the serenity help you look outside of stress and think on another level, at least for me. Running, I do it quite a bit. Aside from the obvious benefits it really kind of just lets you think. Whether it be with music and you are thinking about any number of things probably inspired by music. Running without them lets you take in your environment. Whether you hate it and it motivates you to elevate yourself from where you are or to be thankful for what you have and what you have worked for. Those about sum it up. What about you guys ? Edited April 27, 2014 by Ngata_Chance Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BwareDWare94 723 Posted April 27, 2014 Personal space. I do a lot of my essential thinking when I can just get away from people. Thankfully, I have friends who get that. I need time to read, to write, strum on my guitar, etc. Basic, everyday individual hobbies. I'm glad it's that simple for me. I'm lucky, in that regard. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Zack_of_Steel+ 3,014 Posted April 27, 2014 (edited) Solitude, like Bware, or spending time with children. No matter how shitty a mood I am in, my niece and nephew can right my ship in an instant (technically my girlfriend's family, but they call me uncle and have known me for nearly 3 years). I'm actually about to start looking for a job at a local daycare. Kids love me, haha. Edited April 27, 2014 by Zack_of_Steel 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bay 2,003 Posted April 27, 2014 Being around the dogs and watching my little brother some weekends. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RazorStar 4,025 Posted April 27, 2014 Walking outside on a brisk non-summer month early in the morning, I can just put my hoodie on and reflect on life. Listen to the wind howl, stare up at the moon and watch the fog swirl across the street. It brings out the deeper and more introspective me. 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BwareDWare94 723 Posted April 27, 2014 Solitude, like Bware, or spending time with children. No matter how shitty a mood I am in, my niece and nephew can right my ship in an instant (technically my girlfriend's family, but they call me uncle and have known me for nearly 3 years). I'm actually about to start looking for a job at a local daycare. Kids love me, haha. Great point about nieces and nephews. My two nephews could put me in a great mood if I was down to my last dime. It's not fair to them, but sometimes I realize I'm not in a good place if I'm not extremely happy to see them. When the younger one was born last year, I held him for the first time in the hospital and felt so little that it scared me. I ended up making some important choices right after that that led me to a better place. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GA_Eagle 595 Posted April 27, 2014 Pretty much all the things everyone said put me in a good mood. I walk my dog right around dawn whenever I can. It helps. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
JetsFan4Life 542 Posted April 27, 2014 I used to go on walks a lot to clear my head. Last time I did that was probably last summer. Otherwise what has been said in here, solitude Blasting a little bit of music or just unwinding and playing a game of NHL. I find that for the past couple months whenever I play NHL it's when I'm not in a great mood and I use it more as a stress reliever. I'm in a good place when I'm sitting at my desk in my room. The kids thing is interesting because lately I've also noticed when I'm feeling a little down I go and talk to my 14 year old brother just to talk to him and get my mind off things. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Omerta+ 1,206 Posted April 27, 2014 Sex. I am sure Ricky Martin is excited about that too.... Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
blotsfan 2,112 Posted April 27, 2014 I'm actually about to start looking for a job at a local daycare. Kids love me, haha. Things I never would have guessed for 400 Alex. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ATL_Predator+ 1,196 Posted April 27, 2014 Sex. I am sure Ricky Martin is excited about that too.... ... But seriously. I find great enjoyment and piece whenever I'm at a shooting range. Nothing like it. Also, I enjoy working on cars, pretty active and have a lot of projects this summer. Driving is a big thing too. Landscaping as well, used to do landscaping for my old school, and wish PA wasn't full of fucking hillbilly's so I could actually tolerate and coexist with the people I work with. 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Favre4Ever+ 4,476 Posted April 27, 2014 (edited) Flowing water and stuff is great, for me anyway. Ngata already talked about it.. But I have a small creek in the backyard which is great. So serene.. it's just really nice. Rain is also fantastic... I love the smell of it, the feel of it, the look of it.. And just the sound. I also own multiple little fountain kinda things you might see at the store. Nothing extravagant or anything, but they really work for me.. Great investment. Actually talked to Sarge about this before, but I sometimes listen to just a loop / track online of rain / thunder storms.. Totally mellow and great for self-reflection.I also like just walking through town with my music playing for all of the same reasons.. Just a great time to look back and think. Clears my mind totally and even though I am listening to music, it's almost like I don't hear it (if that makes ANY sense whatsoever... Ha)Unfortunately here, Spring has either been too cold or wet so haven't gotten out much this year yet. Hope to soon, though. Edited April 27, 2014 by Favre4Ever Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Sarge+ 3,436 Posted April 27, 2014 Cartoons, a girlfriend who gives great massages, music, good dreams, and SOMETIMES, a stiff drink. I am one of those people who drink to relax. After I get a few drinks in me, I let a lot of stuff slide that might usually annoy me. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BC 331 Posted April 27, 2014 (edited) Nature and serenity, specifically the cascade mountains and Mt Rainier, all within 1-2 hours of Seattle where I've been all my life. We camped a lot growing up. Dad is a huge boat/beaches guy and I also really love the rocky beaches we have all around here, but not quite as much as the mountains are more of a journey and much more secluded. Last summer I actually started doing this thing where I would head out to the mountains around 5pm, and get out there around sunset, watch it set, then watch the stars slowly come into view, set the camera up on the tripod, and start taking a series of long exposures for an hour or so, and then create star trails exposures. Absolutely love the ambience of the untouched nature atmosphere especially up here in our region. And the last year or so I've been embracing it alone as I'm trying out being single for awhile for a change. Haven't regretted a single trip, the mountains have definitely become my sanctuary where I think about life, dreams, existence, just all of everything. I'm definitely becoming one of those North Face / REI commercial type of people. I usually snowboard 3-4 times a winter and will spend the entire day over on the backside at Stevens Pass where all the untouched fresh snow lies and will go between the trees. Edited April 27, 2014 by BC Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BwareDWare94 723 Posted April 27, 2014 I go back to great times when I'm with my nephews and they want to watch old Scooby Doo cartoons. So nostalgic. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DonovanMcnabb for H.O.F 2,241 Posted April 28, 2014 I spend at least an hour a day by myself listening to Lupe Fiasco. That, and attending Church every Sunday is all I need. Used to be the weight room, but there are too many either stupid people, people who show up to show off, and women who show up to just look pretty. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
PackIsBack 124 Posted April 28, 2014 I'm able to clear my head when I'm listening to music, reading, or spending time with my pet. Depending on what it is, I don't like to go through it alone in which case it's nice to talk it out with someone. Other than that, being alone to sort things out is best. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bucman 891 Posted April 28, 2014 drutunk center ia m Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
seanbrock 1,684 Posted April 28, 2014 (edited) Smoking weed music getting some pussy and if I can't do that then jerking off lol Edited April 28, 2014 by seanbrock Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bucman 891 Posted April 28, 2014 Smoking weed music getting some pussy and if I can't do that then jerking off lol You must jerk off a lot then coward. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BucD+ 648 Posted April 28, 2014 Working out Music Seeing the 24/7 smile and laughter that is my two- (soon to be three) year-old daughter. Playing/watching people video games Sometimes reading works for me...not always... 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BwareDWare94 723 Posted April 28, 2014 Sometimes the best thing for me is Work, honestly. Either of my jobs can distract me from trouble and just put me in my element. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
DonovanMcnabb for H.O.F 2,241 Posted April 28, 2014 lol... Sb knows how to keep it real. haha. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
