Do men want sex more than women?

[seanbrock 1,684]

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=qw064QM6P3A

 

I've actually seen this chick's stand up and personally I think she's pretty funny, which is rare for me because I rarely find women funny. Disagree completely with what she said. I'll post my full thoughts on it after a few replies.

 

fuck it, I'm just posting it now. Maybe it's because I've been with mostly sluts, but I've had way too many women tell me that that's bullshit. Women know they have the upper hand and they can use sex to get what they want but they're just as horny as men. I will say that women think very differently about sex and have waaaaaay different methods of porn/masturbating and how they fantasize about sex though.

 

edit again: this has to be the worst and least objective place in the world to pose this question since all our members pretty much are dudes.

Edited August 15, 2014 by seanbrock

[Sarge+ 3,436]

Sure women want sex just as much as men. It's just harder to get them in the mood sometimes, which goes back to what you said about them thinking about sex differently.

[Guest Phailadelphia]

It's been my experience that women enjoy sex just as men.

 

I don't know what kind of women (girls?) yall have been dating but I've never been with a woman who used it as a weapon or a power move. That sounds like a shit relationship IMO.

[Bucman 891]

I would agree they think about sex differently. They use sex appeal to get what they want, whether in a relationship or just at a bar. If they do it in a relationship however, you may want to rethink why your with them.

[blotsfan 2,112]

I'd say it's equal but women can generally be choosier in who they sleep with.

[CampinWithaMissingPerson 2,025]

"..and now we have Trojan condoms"

 

But yeah on the subject... I'd say that men probably want it a little more than women, but barely and by no huge measure. That's only because women have so many more options than men so some men are just flat out desperate for sex at times, so I believe that drives their "want" up a tad higher but women definitely are right up there with men. There's also the ugly women sect who are just as desperate for sex because they are undesirable though.

 

There's a lot of factors here perpetuating that cliche of men wanting sex way more than women. Slut shaming is the #1 in my opinion. Me personally? I try my hardest to never slut shame because its counter intuitive to what I want from women I meet. Does that mean I love "sluts?" No, it just means I don't go around saying, "She's a slut", "that whore", etc. Why? Because it causes women to be extra cautious with giving up the pussy.

 

"If I sleep with him on the first date, he'll think I'm a slut." Etc. So when I see other dudes calling girls slut this, whore that, I usually pull them to the side at one point and try and share that. Because there is literately no benefit to yourself for proclaiming women who like to have sex as sluts/whores. You gain nothing except maybe a laugh if you add it in with a joke. The benefit of most men not doing that is women being way more down to have sex without feeling shameful/bad/wrong. So instead of waiting, or if you're one of those dudes who puts on the elaborate dog & pony show for a few days just to sleep with a girl she would instead feel no remorse of just sleeping with you off the bat if you two clicked and both were attracted to each other.

 

With contraception devices — be it the pill or whatever — I think women are definitely getting way more free with sex than they used to because we've kind of thwarted nature with that one. Because before women only produced so many eggs at a certain time of the month so making sure they slept with the right man was paramount. Otherwise they'd be even more vulnerable with a baby and no man to help protect/provide. Men shoot off billions of sperm like nothing, while women cultivate eggs delicately. That was nature making women selective in the beginning but with contraception women don't even have to worry about pregnancy like that anymore so it's definitely freed them up to be more sexually liberated.

Edited August 15, 2014 by CampinWithGoatSampson

[Bucman 891]

Woman do get a raw deal with it comes to liking to have sex. They screw a few dudes and they become whores/sluts. Guy screws a few girls and becomes a player.

[BwareDWare94 723]

Women want to orgasm as much as men, but they don't want to have sex as much if the man they're dating doesn't put forth the effort to make that happen.

 

If my experience, if I make sure she comes, too, I have no problem making it happen, because she wants to make it happen, too.

I think we're all good, genuine dudes who take care of their women friends, but it has always, always baffled me when some men lament their partner's disappearing libido. Pretty clear what the problem is, there.

Edited August 15, 2014 by BwareDWare94

[seanbrock 1,684]

It's been my experience that women enjoy sex just as men.

 

I don't know what kind of women (girls?) yall have been dating but I've never been with a woman who used it as a weapon or a power move. That sounds like a shit relationship IMO.

Not even just relationship wise bro. Women get out of tickets, get into places you might not be able to with YOUR tits etc and if you REALLY think about it, at least in some way even if it's just mentioning that SHE'S the one who controls whether you guys have sex or just simple little shit. Most of it is pretty sub conscious and definitely not malicious. It's just learned at a very young age. Maybe you're the pussy whisperer and have always had a healthy relationship with a chick but if you REALLY think about it that pussy power has influenced you I would bet anyway.

[Duck Fallas 209]

When it comes down to it, humans need to have sex. It is that simple. Sure we can break it down to which gender wants it more, but no matter what; we allhave the need.