BwareDWare94 723 Posted May 25, 2014 (edited) The nutjob shooter in California posted an awful Youtube video objectifying women over the many rejections he'd suffered, and due to that, women and men all over the country are vilifying him and any male individual who's ever lamented being rejected or used the term friend zone. Isn't it going a bit far to apply this to any and every man who's ever used the term "friend zone" or been upset over having been rejected? This isn't a gender specific thing. I've had women accuse me of putting them in the friend zone. I've heard many women lament constant rejection.Does it do any good for our country to buy into these things when they vilify only one of the sexes? Edited May 25, 2014 by BwareDWare94 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
GA_Eagle 595 Posted May 25, 2014 (edited) I think you worry about it too much. However, I agree with you on some level, I just also don't think it matters that much. No one legitimately expects every dude who's ever been scorned to shoot up a mall or matinee of the Smurfs 3. If they do they're nutty, too. I think you may need to find some well adjusted women to hang out with. You seem to attract dumb asses and crazies. Edited May 25, 2014 by GA_Eagle Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RazorStar 4,025 Posted May 25, 2014 It's plainly apparent this guy is a douchenozzle. If he can't get just sex with his looks and money, someone fucked up. I mean, it's pretty apparent no self respecting person would ever want a relationship with the dude because the child feels entitled to everything he gets. Most women want a man who earned what he has. The real trick to rustle anyone jimmies (in the good sense) is work on improving yourself. When you can love who you are and be proud of that, then you can attract others. I'm not talking about bullshit self esteem everyone wins stuff, but clear dedication to challenges and goals you set for yourself and meeting those standards. If you've got money, flaunt it. Sense of humour? That works. Intelligent? Works for a lot of women if you aren't entitled because of it. Beautiful singing voice? Who doesn't get wet for that? Improve yourself and show that improvement, you'll never complain about the friend zone again. I think the whole thing about this friend zone scorn is that people feel entitled to sex just because they're nice people. That's the absolute bottom line. Any guy can be nice. It takes almost zero effort, and if you're actually trying to be a nice person then you aren't there yet, not really. In the movies, the hero always gets the girl, this is a thing TV shows and Hollywood do all the time and it's stupid and nonsensical most of the time. So society has that sort of prevailing influence where "Oh I just deserve this beautiful woman because I am a nice dude." Fuck off. 4 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BwareDWare94 723 Posted May 25, 2014 My primary issue with the whole thing is that people are acting like any man who's had similar feelings to him is just like him. Makes no sense, to me. I don't like rejection--nobody does--but like me, most everybody else isn't going to shoot people over it. Most people who deal with rejection are performing too much, and it's very transparent. Someone who's acting isn't attractive. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RazorStar 4,025 Posted May 25, 2014 Begs to differ. jk jk, I know what you're getting at. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Guest Phailadelphia Posted May 25, 2014 Didn't this guy have aspberger's syndrome? The friend zone seems like the last thing we should be discussing about this dude. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
.AirMcNair. 1,232 Posted May 25, 2014 Is taking an extremely small group of people's opinions/actions and making it out to be like it's the majority's opinion/action your "thing", Bware? 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Piggly Wiggly 960 Posted May 25, 2014 Is taking an extremely small group of people's opinions/actions and making it out to be like it's the majority's opinion/action your "thing", Bware? This. Shut the fuck up, Bware. srsly. 1 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BwareDWare94 723 Posted May 25, 2014 You know, I could try a lot less to create worthwhile discussion. Some of you are just never happy with anything. Perhaps your focus should be on the actual topic and not what you think of a certain poster. I was rather offended by the notion that lamenting rejection and usage of the term "friend zone" was only a thing with men when it, in fact, isn't. I thought it worth discussing. For fuck's sake, I don't really understand what issue some of you have. This. Shut the fuck up, Bware. srsly. Oh blow it out your ass 2 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
RazorStar 4,025 Posted May 25, 2014 Don't make me play dad in here. Settle down children. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
.AirMcNair. 1,232 Posted May 26, 2014 You know, I could try a lot less to create worthwhile discussion. Some of you are just never happy with anything. Perhaps your focus should be on the actual topic and not what you think of a certain poster. I was rather offended by the notion that lamenting rejection and usage of the term "friend zone" was only a thing with men when it, in fact, isn't. I thought it worth discussing. For fuck's sake, I don't really understand what issue some of you have. Oh blow it out your ass My post was regarding the topic in a lot of ways, but also addressed you. A very, VERY small amount of people think/talk like you mentioned in this thread. There's radical people when it comes to every kind of opinion you can have on life, and there's nothing we can do to stop it. It's nothing to talk about, because all it amounts to is a couple of stupid people and god knows they don't need any more attention. If it's your family/friends saying this kind of stuff, get away from your family or find new friends. If you're reading this stuff on the internet, visit different websites. You're almost like those people who spend all their time looking for and responding to those radical feminists. Nothing anyone says is going to change their mind, nor does anyone who is halfway intelligent believe anything they say. Stop paying attention to them and they'll eventually shut up. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Bucman 891 Posted May 26, 2014 Its pretty evident by the video this guy had some serious mental problems. He wasn't that bad looking of a guy and probably couldve scored some chicks based on the BMW he was driving around. They probably spent about 5 minutes with the guy and were creeped out. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
ATL_Predator+ 1,196 Posted May 26, 2014 In no way shape or form do I condone or justify what this loser did. But I will say this whole feminist movement/rights thing is getting out of control. Women act like they want to be equal with men and I'm sick of it. I see it in the military, I see it in business, I see it everywhere. I am telling you. If women want to be equal with men, then they better expect to get the good and the bad. Equality in and of itself is a term that will never be reached, because someone is always wanting to be above someone else...it's human nature. I'm sick of women and how they play the victim, acting like they are the only ones that are hurt. I have seen plenty of men devastated, and destroyed by a woman taking away children, being a whore, and being just a flat out cunt. Men can be just as bad but I hate how women think they are innocent 95% of the time. As far as rejection and the friendzone. I've been there and done that. That's not even the worst. The worst part is when you commit entirely to someone you truly love and then they throw it back in your face and treat you like you're dead after 4 years of a relationship. Friendzone-Rejection is minuscule to the worst things I have experienced with women. 3 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
BwareDWare94 723 Posted May 26, 2014 (edited) ^This is exactly my point. Men, as a whole, are being accused of something that both sexes do, and I don't think it should be tolerated. And yeah, I didn't mean to imply that rejection/friend zone is that bad or anything, but this current complaint makes it sound like people can't believe the friend zone exists or feel bad after being rejected. It's a natural reaction. Edited May 26, 2014 by BwareDWare94 1 Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
Milla4Prez63 678 Posted May 26, 2014 Equality is BS, because men and women both have their advantages and disadvantages in life. How many dumb broads do you see with jobs they don't deserve because they have a big rack?As far as the friend zone thing, it sucks, I've been there and overcome the friend zone to end up hurt in the end. But the major thing I learned is to not focus on one girl so much. Once I became friends with my ex she was the only girl I really cared about even before we dated. I had a one track mind and that was a mistake. I think some guys out there should not become so obsessed with a female friend they are attracted to, especially if the attraction isn't returned. You're setting yourself up for worse feelings and heartaches down the line. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
CampinWithaMissingPerson 2,025 Posted May 26, 2014 Didn't this guy have aspberger's syndrome? The friend zone seems like the last thing we should be discussing about this dude. Best post of this thread — even if you did spell Asperger incorrectly. Share this post Link to post Share on other sites
